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Thea Hesselink: They are Proud, I am Proud

July 19, 2008

Like last year, Thea Hesselink has been giving workshops at AEI’s summer school of communication. This time she helped young girls to do painting activities. And she guided AEI’s women’s group in making wall tapestries of pieces of cloth. The products of her courses were shown on the final celebration of the summer school. She personally stuck a selection of children paintings on the military watchtower near Rachel’s Tomb.

The women liked the course. Thea: “They told me that their spirit becomes ‘fresh’. They feel distracted from their daily concerns, so feel better. They brought their own pieces of cloth. The women were afterwards proud of what they made. I told them: ‘I am also proud’.”

  

I watch Thea working with children of preparatory level (12-14 years). She gives them forms to color in. Spread out over the large tables is a series of elephant paintings which the children especially liked. Thea: “They find it difficult to develop something from an empty paper. Maybe this is less creative but the good thing is that the end result is always satisfactory for the children. You see them smiling at the end. On the other hand, they really have to learn how to finish their drawings. At school, they haven’t learned how to do that. Also, they should clean the room at the end of the workshop. Who else should do that? And they have to learn to be careful with the paper, and finish their paint.” Thea can be critical but always in a friendly and calm spirit. Together we talk about Dutch frugality (zuinigheid).

       

While working, Thea once in a while talks in Dutch with the children, and says “Goed zo!” (very good). The kids smile and proudly exercise some Dutch words. The workshop’s atmosphere is informal and friendly. Thea is a little upset after a Palestinian facilitator calms down a youth perhaps a bit too strongly. The child looks intimidated. “That was not needed. The kid is very expressive in his painting. It’s just that he is also sometimes a bit too expressive in his behaviour.” The girls, she says, are very girlish and giggle a lot. No problem.

    

At the end of the workshop the children proudly show their drawings in front of the camera. Thea, who is near the end of her sixties, is looking foreword for a good rest in the Carmel’s Monastery where she has a quiet place to relax. In the morning she walks through the central street of Bethlehem which she loves walking through because there are so many colorful people and things to see. As I observed myself, she has developed a beautiful collection of Bethlehem photos Standing out are her portraits and pictures of the market.

She knows everybody at the school and everybody knows her. A woman enters, “How are you Thea?” But at the end Thea has had it and says, “And now I stop talking!”

Toine van Teeffelen