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Sumud Peace House
Life Stories

Series of interviews with Palestinian teachers:

Educators and Conflict in Schools: What is Argued about, What is Done about it, and Aims for the Future

By Teresa Mongan, for AEI-Open Windows.

 

Interview with Anton Murra

As an administrator within the Arab Educational Institute-Open Windows' School of Communication, Anton served as youth leader for several years within the organization before taking on his new role.He spoke with me about the issues students face in arguments and conflict, the environment and training that AEI-Open Windows provides, and his suggestions on further improving the way conflicts and potential conflicts are dealt with between students.

First touching upon the types of issues that normally come up in arguments among students, Anton explains that the students represent the diversified population of the greater Bethlehem community; they vary in age, class, religious views, gender, and political perspectives. In youth-specific trigger subjects, Anton named ethnicity, religious practice as well as inter-religious relations and marriage, and broader societal issues concerning the ongoing conflict with Israel as points of argument that are brought up both within and outside of the workshop setting that AEI provides. 

In confronting conflict, Anton is a proponent of preventative education. To this end, Anton advocates for discussion workshops to open up the floor to divisive issues so that participants can express their views confidently and safely within AEI and more effectively outside of the Institute. Anton also spoke about the conflict resolution training he coordinated among the women, postgraduate, and high school groups which include peace and conflict resolution methods and techniques. Because of this, Anton believes that when the teenagers argue, they incorporate respect and sensitivity into their open dialogues and debate. "It's how you say something, not what you say," explained Anton. Coming back to elements of mediation, the concepts of reflecting, expressing feelings and needs, dissolving hurt, and open expression are skills that the teenagers use in their workshop discussions. Above all, the goal of these workshops is to connect for mutual learning and to grow together. 

When asked about his suggestions for further improvement, Anton made it clear that it is "impossible to isolate students from their environments," and while parents may be too busy working and teachers at school too occupied with their lesson plans, AEI gives students space, time, and open ears. To make the Arab Educational Institute even more beneficial to students especially, Anton suggested at least one lecture a week dedicated to students' needs in order to give young people a space to talk openly about issues. 

In addition, Anton suggested that teachers in schools should have skills in areas such as conflict resolution, mediation, and non-violent communication so as to comfortably work with conflict rather than divert the issue to the principal's office. 

Lastly, trust-building is an area that Anton suggested for students in developing students' confidence, as well as those of the postgraduates and women. Illustrating what he means by this, trust-building involves relating to oneself and the surrounding environment, relating to one another, and having the ability to express oneself. With this, trust can better be established with the students so that they're better equipped to discuss divisive topics openly and confidently, as well as having the ability to listen to one another despite contrary points of view. While it may indeed be impossible to isolate students from their environments, Anton wants to make certain that this environment also includes a safe space within AEI to discuss and debate the ongoing issues that youth face. 
Teresa Mongan is an American research student studying conflict resolution