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Non-violence Training
Seminar
MAN – Lyon
3rd – 13th
July 2006
Four youths from the AEI
New Graduates and Young Employees
Youth Group, led by Mr. Fuad
Giacaman – AEI-Open Windows Director
General participated in an
intercultural youth exchange in
Lyon/ Paris. The name of the hosting
organization is MAN (Mouvement Pour
une Alternative Non-violente). Two
different Israeli peace loving
groups participated also in this
youth exchange, which were; Refusnic
and the New Profile.
The first part of the
seminar focused on learning values
of non-violence, communication,
representations, conflict
management, mediation, so there were
presentations, discussion meetings,
working groups and ice-breaking
games as well as cooperative and
sportive games. It aimed at getting
to know one another, to reduce the
stereotypes, and to build bridges of
better understanding as a step to
pave the way for discussing hot
issues, such as; mutual recognition,
the vision of the Palestinian, U.N.
resolutions, refugees' problem,
cultural differences.

The wedding of Ariane was
fascinating with the ceremony, the
reception, the priest and the
witnesses. Our participation in the
wedding with the Palestinian
folkloric traditional wedding
including, trilling, Dancing (Dabkah)
was an added value to the beauty of
this event. There were fun and
cultural activities, such as
watching football matches and Ghandi.

The second part included
more meetings with French
organizations, official
personalities from different towns
in Lyon, councils, general assembly
of Lyon when our participants
presented the AEI as well as the
present situation in the region. In
addition to city tours

There was an evaluation
meeting with the participants when
they returned;
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How was the general atmosphere
at the seminar?
There
were some participants who were
contented psychologically and happy
with the team spirit that prevailed
among the group;
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Psychologically it is
good, just getting out of Palestine
and being away from the Israeli
Occupation for a while is pretty
much needed.
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We didn't have any
personal clashes with our group
members. The team spirit prevailed
However, one of the
participants pointed out that the
first part of the seminar was more
comfortable than the second part,
because all of the participants were
in the same place in addition to the
dorms and the food.
Others were less
satisfied with the organization; one
related it to the following remarks;
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Not much sight seeing
and excursions
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The discussion was
interrupted and stopped by any
excuse when it got started to be
serious and hot, especially those
about the conflict
-
There was language
problem especially with the French
people
-
There were no French
youth participants. "It was
important for us to see their points
of view about the conflict and also
to show us around" said one of the
participants.
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Did you enjoy this exchange
(fun)?
There
was entertainment most of the time,
yet interfering in one's personal
issues was not welcomed at all. The
geographical and cultural
differences of the Palestinian
participants, created sensitivity
among the Palestinian two groups.

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There was exhaustion
yet enjoyment while traveling.
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Meditation and
walking through the bushes was nice
-
The duck which was
called "Jessica" during Dolomieu's
lunches was very interesting.
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How do you evaluate the
participants?
It was a
little bit difficult to evaluate the
participation of the Israelis
because there wasn't deep
interaction.
The AEI
participants didn't have real verbal
hot discussions with other
participating organization members,
regardless of some of the personal
political confrontations that
happened from time to time.
There
was certain homogeneity among the
AEI participants, the girls
participation was modest but the
seminar to them was a very unique
and rich learning experience
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What have you learnt from this
exchange (knowledge and skills)?
Some of
the participants claim that they
didn't learn new things, except
approaching the same knowledge from
different angles and ways. Yet they
don't deny the fact that they met
new Israeli peace loving groups such
as the Refusnic and the New Profile.
They also improved their English
communication skills and learnt how
to handle conflicts and also how to
act/ react in conflicting
situations, so in general they have
developed their personalities. For
example, one of the participants
learned how to use different
terminologies and approaches
depending on the people whom he
talked with. They also showed their
courageous stands against some
Israeli participants' mentality
which focused on diverting them from
discussing the occupation polices to
talking about cultural differences
(sex, gender, women and gay rights)
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Do you consider such exchanges a
means to communicate Palestine
and a kind of non-violent
resistance or a kind of
normalization?
Some of
the participants were not satisfied
with their performance. They said
that they couldn't communicate
Palestine properly hence couldn't
leave an impact with the people they
met, however, on personal level they
succeeded in presenting and
discussing many of the hot issues
like the democratic elections of the
new Palestinian government and
others. Other participants were
satisfied with their contribution
because they witnessed for their
faiths and national stands. Mr. Fuad
proudly said: "I was able to
communicate Palestine better than
many of other Palestinian leaders. I
was able to introduce the concept of
Sumud (steadfastness/
resilience)". Mr. Fuad also pointed
out how his wisdom of being able to
manage a conflict that took place
when all the participants were
invited to meet with Arab-Israeli
group from Haifa who highly talked
about the State of Israel, when the
Palestinian delegation decided to
withdraw form that meeting. But Mr.
Fuad decided to put off this meeting
till he discussed that matter with
the Palestinian group. Mr. Fuad
succeeded to a certain extent to
present AEI main non-violent actions
especially the strategy of peace
spirituality during his short
presentation.
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What were the challenges and the
hot issues that were discussed
there?
One of
the participants had a talk with an
Israeli young man, and he was asking
questions from an Israeli colonial
perspective. He said: "he wouldn't
listen to my analyses, as if he was
brainwashed".
Cultural
differences regarding food wasn't
taken into consideration especially
when the Middle Eastern people enjoy
eating
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Recommendations and Suggestions
-
studying a better
criteria in choosing participants in
order to achieve homogeneity among
the group
-
giving on-going
trainings on national,
inter-religious, peace and
non-violence issues
-
organizationally
speaking, recommend to have more
specific topics for discussion
-
having youth
participants from the hosting
organization (French)
-
sticking to the
planned schedule
-
having more time, 10
days are not enough
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organizing more
excursions, trips and site-seeing
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more involvement in
the French public community (public
speaking)
-
more trainers and
more time for the presentations
-
more administrative
responsibilities to be given to all
organizations' organizers and
participants
-
pay attention to the
quality and quantity of the food
served
To sum up, this
intercultural non-violent training
seminar was an interesting,
informative and learning experience.
It was a golden opportunity for both
Israeli and Palestinian groups'
members to have better understanding
and get to know their different
points of view. It was a chance for
our Palestinian youths to raise
their voices in front of the
Israelis and French about their
sufferings from the Israeli
Occupation repressive practices.
This youth encounter has opened new
horizons for getting to know more
about the different aspects of the
youth culture. |