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AEI-Open Windows News

Move Ahead and Leave a Trail

Cross-Cultural Encounter and Inter-religious Dialogue in Europe and the Middle East

August 8th – 20th, 2007

 

 Five of university youth group members participated in a youth exchange project in Germany entitled "Move Ahead and Leave a Trail".  In an evaluation meeting, which took place last week, the participants talked about their experiences in that youth exchange.

First of all, they talked about the doubts they had before they left to Germany. Some of them were concerned about their English communication skills; others were worried about their capacity to communicate Palestine. For example, Manar Al 'Ali said: "I have good English communication skills. I was able to express myself easily. Nevertheless, I didn't have enough national knowledge." Hana Kidan shared her worries "I was worried that the exchange would be too serious. I always find difficulties to expressing myself in English. Surprisingly, I found myself communicating with other so easily. I was relieved realizing that some participants from the other countries were not fluent in English. I though that all the other participants would be better in English." However, Mohammed Sha'lan declaired "I expected not to participate at all because of my poor English. However, I managed very well and I found myself communicating especially in the side talks with the other participants from foreign countries. These talks were so rich."

Secondly, the youths talked their perceptions regarding their experiences with the Israeli participants.  For example, Amanr Said: "I thought that the communication with the Israeli participants won't be good." Fadi Abu Akleh on the other hand commented: "I have experienced Israeli-Palestinian encounters. All of them were activity oriented exchange project. But that was the first time I had hot discussions with Israelis. We made presentations about the occupation in front of Israelis. There was tension during the workshops. But outside the lectures we had normal relations with them." Hana was surprised to realize that the whole project was about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. She expected to learn about the Egyptians or the Lithuanians. "I didn't expect to gain all the attention of all the participants".

As they pointed, there was tension in the workshops. There were mutual provocations according to what these youth said.. For example, anything the Palestinian would say about the occupation and its repressive actions the Israelis got irritated and vice versa. The Israeli participants labeled the Palestinian resistance as "Terrorism" or by marketing some ideas such as "Israel offers reconciliation to the Palestinians by giving them some land".  The Palestinian youths were offended and worked hard to preach the other youths that "This land is originally ours".

What they didn't like is the biased positions of some of the leaders, such as Anna. She used to end any discussion that is pro the Palestinians or against the Israelis. When we used to have hot discussions with the Israeli, she used to come and end the discussion. The opposite she did when they used to corner us.

"We took the exchange seriously and we worked hard to change many of the distorted images the other participants held against us." That is what Manar said. Fadi Abu Akleh continued, "We didn't react violently to any of the provocations." Manar emphasized, "We stayed cool though we were irritated, and reacted pretty smart. We showed pictures and made presentations". According to Hana, the other participants were impressed with their (Palestinian) performance.

When they were asked whether they consider these Israeli-Palestinian encounters as a form of non-violent resistance or normalization; they said that formally and during the workshops, they were communicating Palestine, but at the same time we had also fun and socializing with them. Mohammed said: "we don't represent our country politically. It is a form of non-violent resistance and a chance to correct stereotypes and to prove that we still exist" Mohammed added: "in the Qur'an there is a verse that says (communicate with them in the better way)".

The AEI youth participants were happy to know that there was equal participation for the entire group, except when they made a power point presentation about the daily life reality reflecting their suffering. The organizers gave them only 40 minutes (half the time less than the other groups), claiming that the Palestinian presentation was irrelevant.

Regarding the cultural diversity, the AEI youth delegation experienced funny stories. For examples, they found themselves unable to understand the Egyptian dialect. They also found it exciting learning about each other's culture. So they were talking in the side talks about customs and traditions, education, etc. On the other hand, as in the Arab culture is common, the Palestinians and the Egyptians used to sing, and laugh during bus rides. Some others were ready or putting their headphones listening to music. However so often others used to join them. They noticed that there is a difference in clothing and some attitudes as well. Above all, they realized how all youths were interested in the Arab Coffee. Fadi Abu Akleh Said jokingly "All wanted to drink Arab coffee, even wanted to buy some. We could have made good business there!" In addition, Mohammed shared a very funny story that he experienced with his roommate from Egypt called Michael. The Palestinian group arrived the first to the academy. So Mohammed was accommodated in a room. Later on his roommate, Michael was accommodated. The latter was so religious that once he got in his room, he unzipped his luggage and started hanging crosses all over the room, even on top of the bed of Mohammed. Mohammed was thinking to him self "I think I will be baptized by the end of this youth exchange".

The youth participants confirmed that they stayed as a group and were able to build a strong team spirit, especially during the times of seeking information and needed one another support. On the other hand, they also said that there was no need for any leader to accompany them because everything was clear and they got training as well in advance.

 Concerning the preparatory training period all said that it was important especially the English language training. They benefited from inviting previous participants in the training, because the latter shared their experience and knowledge. So as they said: "things were clear enough. We even saved time because we were well trained"

The AEI youth participants said that this exchange was very good for them because they met with others, especially Israelis, it was a kind of an escape from the difficult situation in Palestine. It was also needed to change atmosphere and be introduced to new conflicts in the world as well as new cultures.

In general the youths enjoyed the exchange a lot, because they it developed their personalities, they had lot of fun and knowledge, and they met youths with whom they want to keep in touch.